The Madonna & The Whore

“What men desire is a virgin who Is a whore” – Edward Dahlberg

There are few things in this world that have inspired as much obsession and insanity as a woman’s sexuality. American culture as a whole is a perfect example of this mania. The American Mainstream thoroughly castigates anything perceived as “slutty” through almost every outlet of the human experience whilst simultaneously using that same “slutiness” (now labeled under a different word i.e. “sexy”, “empowered”, “liberated”) to sell everything from movies and video games to lingerie and cheeseburgers.  It’s this weird dynamic that is prevalent on all levels of culture – one where sexual appeal is used to entice the consumer whilst at the same time shaming the very same sexual appeal under different circumstances.

A clear example of this is in horror movies were teenagers having sex is a sure-fire sign they are going to be brutally murdered as “punishment”. In action movies or romantic comedies the lead female protagonist is inevitably more reserved with her sexuality (but leaks just enough of it out to not be a complete prude) while her female antagonists are far more sensual in at least appearance, if not action. A trope has even emerged from it; evil is sexy.

A paradox is present, one were society ostensibly condones and subtlety encourages lasciviousness. This hypocrisy is so common in our culture that we take it for granted. This is harmful because ultimately, it leads to both men and women having counterproductive beliefs about sexual desire. As a whole, society becomes more repulsively degenerate because as it demonizes the natural sexual attraction between man and woman, more deviant behavior arises as a consequence.

America is interesting in how both men and women engage in patently absurd ideas about sexual behavior due to the conflicting virtues of the virgin/slut dynamic. Both sexes tend to be guilty of this in different ways and tragically/hilariously make a happier life more difficult for themselves and their partners as a result. This injurious behavior manifests in different ways between them which we’ll explore to in order to better understand what the fuck is going, see how these views ruin everything for everybody, and learn how to start fixing it.

The Sublime Virgin

Mary of Nazareth

To start, we must first understand the powers within these archetypes to see what all the fuss is about. First is the mythic Madonna/Virgin/Maiden/Mother figure that is ingrained deeply within the collective unconscious. So powerful and prevalent that almost every culture, from Pagan to Christian, has a variation of it. The Virgin represents virtues that just about every healthy human being, man or woman, deeply values on a spiritual level.

The Madonna is the light side of the feminine. She embodies patience, divine love, faith, and a quiet, transcendent strength. She is fascinating in the fact that despite often times possessing a sort of angelic beauty, men revere and adore her white not feeling any lust for her. Rather than seeking glory for herself, she inspires those in her life to achieve greatness.

These virtues are why societies and religions encourage women to embody them. Pragmatically, it is hugely beneficial for the culture and spiritually, when done correctly, leads to greater peace for all. She supports all with an unconditional love, a love that is beyond any romantic love, a love second only to the love of God.

Men deeply crave this sort of love. Men are after all, the true romantics. It is mostly men who throughout the ages have written stories, songs, poetry, and lamentations about this almost ethereal state. It is a deep, driving need that men look for, knowingly or not, in women. Corruptions of this desire result in Oedipus complexes and the origin of “most men marry their mother”.

To further conflagrate the issue, most men cannot see the Madonna as anything less than perfect. An impossible ideal for any woman to live up to for no one, even the greatest saint or most selfless mother, is perfect.  Hence, he is bound for failure and despair because of his inability to accept reality.

Men cannot reconcile the purest virgin figure, be that in the form of sweet, innocent little Suzy from down the street, or their doting grandmother who bakes you a pie and gives you money every time you visit her, with those very same women at the different periods in their existence where they got bent over behind a dumpster by some alpha male that didn’t give a fuck. To an inferior man, in his heart, a woman cannot be both even though he might rationally understand that all women are imperfect human beings. His subconscious rejects such a notion if he has not achieved a certain degree of maturity.

Women are also damaged by striving to embody this figure to such an extreme. Often times, they will find themselves “trapped”. Some will idealize her as a pure figure, and she is unable, or unwilling, to contradict this perception. Thus, while she may enjoy a great prestige of a sort, she forsakes other sides of her humanity for it. Her sexual desire, her ambitions, and even her petty shortcomings, all must be cast aside if she hopes to continue being seen this way. Often times, in the majority of women, who as a human is generally not spiritually developed enough to handle it, this prison of perfection leads a beautiful soul to become a harridan. Old, bitter, and prude in the extreme, she lashes out, passively or aggressively, at any young, pretty girl in her jurisdiction.

A standard example of this is the stereotype of the severe catholic nun. She ruthlessly enforces the most draconian of puritan behaviors from her students. Secretly, she envies the sexual potential within these girls that she never got to express. This resentment is marked under the guises of “morality” and “chastity”. It’s no wonder that a lot of catholic school girls famously end up becoming sex-obsessed maniacs. As we will see later, the more you repress natural sexual desire, the more it twists itself into something perverse until it cannot be contained any longer.

As we have seen, while The Madonna figure represents the highest of feminine ideals, she is also the cause of a great many shortcomings. We must be careful not to too strongly push to just one direction, but she is only one side of the coin. The nice side that every lady wants to show to a potential husband – the side that tells a man this woman is “wife material”. The side that tells the world she is a good mother, a strong, God-fearing woman, and a proper lady on top of all that. How boring, where are the sluts at?

The Almighty Harlot

Helen of Troy

The Whore, the love goddess, the seductress, the man eater, etc. All these terms, some with better connotations that others, serve to address one side of the coin that we see in the feminine. It is said that sexual desire is a woman’s greatest weapon and indeed, countless battles, public and private, have been waged for its favor.  Man’s principal obsession in this world, programmed into his very being, is sex. The more beautiful the woman, the better. For all the religions, politics, laws, and taboos that have been imposed to contain it, history has proven that men will consistently risk their lives, reputation, and very honor to pursue a woman he did not have.

Kings, politicians, warriors, poets, nobles, merchants, and thieves have all famously fallen in one ancient story or recent headline because of it. Nobody ever stops and asks themselves when tremendous power would cause an otherwise intelligent, rational human being to go to such extreme and self-destructive lengths. Instead, we simply dismiss the man as a pervert or a creep, sometimes men as a whole. This is a foolish thing, one that does everyone a disservice because we choose ignorance over knowledge simply because that knowledge makes us uncomfortable. We must recognize the forces at work here in order to deal with it.

Women deeply crave this power and the desire for it is just as strong as ever. Poor women from the slums of some 3rd world country have used their sexual appeal to achieve a level of wealth that would of been virtually impossible by any other  means. Women of all walks and all times have used their charms to get what they want, ranging from getting some nerd to do their math homework to having a man commit murder. A feminine woman intrinsically craves sexual attention the same way a man craves respect in no small part because of this.

If you don’t believe me, just take a look at the $50 billion+ beauty industry whose sole purpose is to make a woman feel sexy. And what does it mean to a woman to feel sexy? What we just talked about – powerful, compelling, envied, successful. This is why (feminine) women are consumed with a desire for makeup, jewelry, shoes, clothes, hair, etc – even if they do not consciously realize it. This is why women who have contributed nothing to society, but a pretty face and voluptuous body, become famous and make more money than you ever will doing an honest day’s work. Now we start to understand why governments and religions have always had an uncanny obsession with controlling the whore aspect in women.

In an almost cosmic joke of sorts, everyone is as obsessed with the whore as they are with the virgin. But the power of the whore is only rivaled by the hatred it inspires from both sexes. Unlike the virgin, who in polite society will be universally respected, it is considered culturally acceptable for both men and women to utterly trash any female openly embodying whore aspects. While in certain circles the whore is revered beyond a sexual level, she is not exactly the kind of lady that inspires respect and admiration. But before you go full social justice warrior and demand that all women become the ultra slut in fiery rebellion, understand that these attitudes are, despite superficial appearance, necessary, to a degree.  (But perhaps not to the extreme that they tend to be at) Without a sort of hard check on slut behavior, society would be in chaos.

Men, who are biologically averse to being cuckolded (modern day faggotry not withstanding), need some sort of reassurance that the baby is theirs. Traditional whore behavior can also be seen as selfish, opportunistic, and inherently deceitful. This aversion, coupled with a general disgust for infidelity, is not unwarranted. It’s not unreasonable to believe that a woman who exhibits these traits in the extreme would be categorically unsuitable to be a wife or mother. A culture that hopes to raise healthy children to contribute towards its advancement cannot abide by this. Furthermore, this behavior is perilous for the woman as well. Increased chance of rape, disease, and pregnancy are risks that come with a more provocative demeanor.

As we have seen, much like its opposite, the virgin, taking this behavior to an extreme is detrimental towards both the individual woman and the world she participates in. Even still, for all the blame the left wing crusade has laid on men for regulating female sexual expression, it seems women are more to blame for the stud/slut double standard.

Eve hates Adam…and other Eves

Women are their own worse enemies when it comes to policing their sexuality. For all the hoopla about ending slut shaming, women are still the biggest slut shamers of all. “Oh, she’s such a slut!” The battle cry of threatened women everywhere against the more attractive members of their gender. It is almost ubiquitous; we’ve all heard it since middle school. The reason for this is somewhat nuanced and beyond the scope of this topic, but it has to do with declining sexual market value in the face of superior completion – it is a tool used, with varying degrees of success, to undermine a competing female’s social capital. As a general rule, the older/less attractive they get, the more this intensifies, as we saw with the catholic nun. Irregardless, women, almost unconsciously, constantly use this weapon to reinforce the negative aspects of the whore, making everyone with a vagina more confused and stressed because of it.

If you are observant, it can easily be noticed in the internal conflict women deal with on social media or in your everyday interactions. Woman are constantly at odds with looking too easy and seeming like too much of a prude. Every woman wants to feel sexy and empowered, but at the same time they don’t want to give up the respect of their peers for it. Sometimes, you see women “decide” on which side of the fence they will stand on and condemn the other, with those on one insisting that they are classy and ladylike, while those on the other proclaiming they are strong and free. Often times, women pick one side not because of some intrinsic virtue like they would have you believe, but merely because it is more profitable based on their current circumstances. If it is more profitable to flaunt their superior genetics and so they take that route. Other times, because of shifting priorities, such as the approaching wall, a more unattractive physique, or an intense desire for a traditional family, the “classy” side emerges. It’s no surprise that generally (but not always) the side a female pics is based on how attractive she is. Who would of thought that the so-called more emotional sex was this pragmatic?

As if that wasn’t enough, in the modern western world, with the calamity known as 3rd wave feminism, the already dangerous lady/tramp mindset has been manipulated to preposterous levels. Feminism doing what feminism does best – ruining everything and making no rational sense while doing it – is nothing new. What is new is how it has affected women on a psychological level, namely in how they simultaneous idolize and shame slut behavior in women. Feminists will hold “slut walks”, parades consisting primarily of obese, pink-haired monstrosities in their underwear marching around screaming inanities.

The few members in their group capable of speaking the human language state that women are free humans that can do as they please, including fucking whoever they want whenever they want. Technically this is true and , barring certain marriage contracts, its legality is not in dispute. They truly believe they are helping women become freer  from the double standards of an evil patriarchal society. At the same time, you’ll get older feminists, who have long since hit the wall, stating that sexuality is degrading to women (when it appeals to men) and women should not doing this thing for that very reason. Usually, these hags used their sexuality for all it was worth in their prime, and are now bitter that men no longer find them attractive. With any bit of objective digging into the subject one can see that feminism exacerbates an already complicated issue, making it worse for men and especially women as usual.

It is not all lies and self-denial, however. A few select women achieve that legendary balance between these two polarities and achieve an almost perfect harmony. They seem to get away with all the benefits of sexual appeal while still maintaining an image of feminine respect. Usually, women of this caliber are rather beautiful, but this is complimented by a sharp intelligence and a certain grace that is hard to pin down. It is the female equivalent of a superman, and truly it is a sight to behold. This is the reason why the old adage “tell a pretty girl she’s smart and tell a smart girl she’s pretty” exists.

Aside from achieving the zenith of social status, perhaps women would be better served by readjusting their attitudes. But before we cross that bridge, we must address the source of  this shenanigans in the first place, men

Adam loves (and hates) Eve

Image result for why dont you go back to your home on whore island

Are men at the cause of all this controversy, or are they also just victims of forces they scarcely comprehend? Either way, it doesn’t matter because everything somehow ends up being our fault anyway. We’ve already shown how women are just as responsible for a lot of the social issues that revolve around sex in America, but we’ll just role with it.

The chief manifestation of a Madonna/Whore complex was made by Freud with men in mind. As we have stated before, men cannot seem to comprehend on a subconscious level that women are a ever-shifting combination of virgin/slut, which in turn is influenced by nature and nurture. Ridiculous attitudes arise from this, including the whole “I want a Disney Princess that’s secretly a Porn Star” thing.

Even those among the supposedly more enlightened red pill variety will push this narrative. They shall exclaim, loudly and repeatedly, that women of the modern era are all debased slatterns and demand that they return to the old-fashioned womanly values of chastity and restraint. Simultaneously, they’ll resent the fact that their girlfriends/wives barely have even the most boring vanilla sex with them. Then, angry and deprived, they seek to study game in order to sleep with more women and manufacture more of the “sluts” they hate so much to begin with. What the fuck is this shit?

Never do they stop and ask themselves how a woman is supposed to magically infer all this and preform accordingly? (As if that is her sole purpose in life) If you’ve never had sex with a virgin then I can tell you, from more than one experience, it’s usually awful to mediocre at best. This whole attitude is patently unrealistic and it’s both surprising and frustrating to me how certain men who are otherwise deeply intelligent and insightful, are unable to see this contradiction.

Hilariously, these men have more in common with feminists than they care to admit – they are all suffering from madonna/whore complexes of a rather intense variety. Not only does this reinforce a false worldview, but from a more practical perspective, it’s bad for your success with women. On average, women are far more socially astute than men and they understand that most men (i.e beta males) cannot handle the fact that they may have a bit of a past. It’s no surprise then when they need a stable beta, they lie to him and tell him they’ve only been with 2 guys and both were serious long term relationships. Give me a break.

You can’t blame the women here, because the fact is these men simply would lose their minds if they realized their precious Stacy got railed by half the football team when she was head cheerleader in college. Immediately, she would be demonized because these men cannot seem to understand that little Stacy may also get horny and crazy at times. Contrast this with alpha males that have actual game who realize women are sexual beings that like to have sex. These are the guys women talk about when they say they “get it”. This is usually why most men cannot find success with women, and it’s because they are unable to install the appropriate beliefs systems into their hard drive that are conducive to having sex with hot girls.

Damn, so you mean this attitude extends to the point that it might prevent me from getting laid? Yes, but note that I am not advocating for you to “love them hos”, I am merely saying to readjust your preconceptions into such a manner that is more consistent with reality. Not only will you personally benefit from it, but society as whole will as well. Think that I’m exaggerating?

Rise of The Herbivore Man

Look at the incredible madness that has gripped Japan, one of the world’s leading countries. Almost 50% of the population doesn’t want to have sex. Despite having one of the richest and most unified cultures of all time, on top of being one of, if not the most technologically advanced nation, it is facing a massive depopulation crisis. Now, there are a multitude of reasons and studies that have been done, but at the fundamental level the issue comes down to how men and women relate to each other on a sexual level. Japanese men are being raised in a society were speaking to women is awkward, cumbersome, and too “socially expensive”. Sex is seen as overtly awkward and taboo in public, yet the porn industries in Japan are almost legendary in their variety and depth. This reservation towards the opposite sex leads to erroneous ideas of what sex is and how “things are supposed to be”. An overly idealized picture of something as primal as sex is bound to get corrupted when reality inevitably doesn’t agree with fiction.

Why Japan is in Crisis
Meet my Waifu

An increasingly prevalent group of “men” (we use this term lightly) in Japan are known as “grass eaters“, otaku nerds that would rather masturbate to anime lolitas than deal with actual females and all their baggage. The Japanese culture further encourages behavior this with its colossal anime/videogame machine, basically consuming young men in virtual worlds with their perfect hentai waifus. Now, before you launch an Internet Crusade against me, I’m not saying these hobbies are “bad” or unacceptable, I’m saying we need to recognize how taking them to the extreme has a severely detrimental effect. Further industries like the “music idols”, anime inspired pop princesses, confound this problem. Their are cases of these poor girls receiving death threats, getting assaulted, etc, because her “fans” found out she was speaking to actual men when she wasn’t preforming for her perverse fan base. In other words, these guys, with no real world understanding of women, fetishize the idols into some kind of Madonna figure and the very fact that she did anything that deviated from this perception caused them to go into a rage. They could not reconcile their “angel” doing such a thing, indeed, she must be a lying whore that needs to be punished. At no point is she ever viewed as a human being.

The Samurai would have surely committed seppuku after witnessing this bullshit

As we are observing in real time, ignorant cultural views on sexuality lead to neurotic behaviors in the population, most often manifesting as classic Madonna – Whore complexes which leave men and women unable to relate to each other . With the advent of virtual reality technology (Read: VR Porn) things are only going to get worse.  Like poison coursing through an organism’s body, it will start doing catastrophic damage if the antidote is not administered. Japan’s particular set of problems are different from the West, but these are merely different symptoms of the same underlying factors. A lack of useful education and foundational experience between the sexes coupled with illogical and impractical cultural prejudices serve to weaken the entire nation.  So then, if this is true, what can we do about it?

Balancing Opposites

We must understand that a balance is necessary with the archetypes. No woman can ever hope to attain a god-like countenance, no matter how hard she tries. While it is essential for a prosperous society to instill a good character within her, they must be careful not to take it to the extreme or it will end up doing more harm than good.

As men, we must come to understand this deeply. I am not advocating slut culture by any means, but rather, pointing out how are hidden neuroses can negatively affect our quality of life. There is nothing wrong with desiring a more virtuous woman for a wife, but we must not take it to the extreme and make her into some inhuman figure. Not only is this unsustainable, but it is also not fair to her, and a disservice to yourself. Choosing fairy tales over hard truth is a sign of weakness.

Understand that every woman, just like every man, has different powers within themselves. The more we come to accept this, the higher we ascend as men, mentally and spiritually. Women can also sense this, and when they sense that you can see a more complete picture of who she is, she will open up to you that much more emotionally and physically.

Notice how my call to action is for men and not women. This is because men must lead – one cannot, and should not, expect women to change things. Just as in a relationship where the chaotic feminine craves the order of the masculine, so to must it be within our culture.  It is universal law; revolution comes through the masculine. When we as the men of modern times start returning to our roots while at the same time progressing our understanding from the accumulated wisdom of the ages, we will start seeing the change we so desire in our women.

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